Shattered and delusional...how does one fix it?

 Epidemiologically personality disorders are much more
Mental illness is difficult. It is perhaps more difficult forcommon in women (ratio of 4:1) than men and there is
the one suffering from it rather than those who mustoften a history of some type of childhood trauma.
watch someone they know experience it. I do notHistorically, it has been known to be very difficult
have a mental illness, rather, I have a family membertreating personality disorders. The goal of any clinician
who suffers from it. They have for quite a few yearsis to minimize anger and hostility the person suffering
now. I can't even imagine how it must feel to sufferfrom such a disorder may feel. Many people who
from a mental issue, but I do know how it feels to besuffer from mental health problems such as peronality
the target of the person who does suffer from thedisorders, are impulsive and often time have poor
issue. How does one fix the problem? Or can they?judgement or poor decision making skills. This has been
Mental health issues are not at all uncommon. Millionsobvious to me since 2006 regarding this particular
of people around the world suffer from various formsfamily member.
of mental health issues. Some have been diagnosedSo...can these issues be fixed? Is the person who
and are currently being treated, some have yet to besuffers from the above problems permanently
diagnosed and many refuse to be treated. Accordingdamaged?
to Dahlen and Deffenbacher (2001), there are variousThings that can help someone who suffers from a
way to deal with mental health issues. One skill wouldmental health problem:
be relaxation coping skills, which target both the•Adequate communication between the family
emotional and physiological arousal associated withmembers, the clinicians and the patient;
anger...if the person is suffering from anger•if inpatient stay is required, there should be clear
management issues. The relaxation skill has the intentgoals for why the person is admitted and what the
of lowering anger arousal. In contrast to targetingplans will be when it is time for discharge. Short stays
arousal, cognitive interventions target biases inare preferable and seem to help reduce dependence.
information processing and cognitive appraisals.The longer a patient remains an inpatient, the higher
When a family member suffers from a severetheir risks for causing injury to themselves;
psychological disability, what do you do? How do you•firm limit setting – verbal and physical abuse is
cope with it? When is the right time to diagnose anever to be tolerated; Just because the person suffers
mental health problem and how is it diagnosed? Ifrom a mental illness does not grant them a free ticket
receive the brunt of my family member's delusions andto abuse others.
scattered patterns of thinking by way of internet•be consistent – For example, if you have told
postings. Why exactly this family member has fixatedthe person that they will have to have a "time out" for
and obsessed with me for so many years thus far, isverbally abusing hospital staff or family members, then
really anyone's guess. Perhaps it is a part of the illness.they must have a "time out"; Actions speak louder than
I am aware that the severe psychological disabilitywords.
causes much of the internet misconduct. I do know the•safety – removal of potentially harmful items
individual has been undergoing treatment for thesuch as knives, guns or any object that can be
psychological disability most of their "adult life". Perhapsconsidered a weapon, to reduce the possibility of
aging causes the illness to become worse over time?self-harm;
The thought processes of someone who suffers from•inform the community upon the person's discharge,
a mental impairment are dysfunctional and scattered. Itas the majority of care is often outpatient; Lessen
is oftentimes impossible to have a logical dialogue withneighbors fears that the person may present a
someone who is mentally ill and mentally unstable.problem for their community.
A person with a personality disorder, clinical depression•it would also be helpful at this time to have a plan
or some other form of mental health issue, can befor further management, whether dialectic behaviour
incredibly charismatic, witty, enjoyable to betherapy, or for crisis intervention only. Speak with
around...even causing others no alarm that anything isdoctors, clinicians and therapists regarding long term
even amiss. There seems to be an illness where ancare or future plans.
individual's personality becomes split. Beware of theIt is difficult to make a diagnosis regarding personality
person, however, who is overly effusive regardingdisorder, prior to the age of 18 years, due to the other
your abilities or the abilities of others. If they havedevelopmental changes occurring at this time.
grandios thoughts, scattered thinking and they areReference articles
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conflicting statements will become more noticable.