| You go somewhere, you find someone that you is | | | | A little over 3 years ago, jobs were abundant and you |
| very appealing to your eyes and so you decide to go | | | | could almost walk into a job. Jobs were basically taken |
| up and build some rapport. Finally, you ask her out but | | | | for granted at that time. Now, people are holding on to |
| she says no, and gives her reason. What you have | | | | their jobs for dear life. Basically, the more popular a |
| experienced is rejection. | | | | certain something is, the more likely you'll deal with |
| Rejection isn't a very bad thing. It is quick, and the | | | | rejection as it comes to the object. |
| worst it often leaves is a little sting. Yet so many | | | | Rejection, while it does sting can provide an |
| people are extremely afraid of it. Some would swear | | | | opportunity for growth and maturity. You can learn to |
| that they take death over a rejection, even in simple | | | | be persistent in some area in your life, especially in |
| matters like dating. The thing is, maybe you didn't really | | | | careers. Even in this economy, it is better to be |
| want to go out with her after all. Maybe while she | | | | rejected than accepted for the wrong job. You need |
| appealed to your eyes, she had a personal life style | | | | to have a stand out record, but then again the area |
| that just wouldn't have clicked with you and would've | | | | employers look at pretty much the most is experience. |
| made your life rather miserable. | | | | If it means that much to you, you can go through |
| It is basically the same with other things like jobs and | | | | rejection after rejection until you get the right |
| careers. In fact, these days it is a lot easier for a poor, | | | | opportunity for you and it would be worth all of the |
| even homeless guy to get a girlfriend than it is to get a | | | | rejections you went through. While rejection is seen as |
| job. Employers have gotten that much pickier. Plus, | | | | this death dealer of some sorts, it is actually a good |
| there are so many other people applying for a job. | | | | thing in a sense in that it can protect you from rather |
| That's just how it works, the scarcer or more popular | | | | undesirable circumstances. Although sometimes, |
| something gets, the less likely you are to get it unless | | | | rejection can cause you bad circumstances but that is |
| you are more qualified. Qualification could come in the | | | | rare. |
| form of just being in the right time at the right place. | | | | |